Love is in the Air

I've never been super crazy about Valentines Day... Growing up there were parties where you would give everyone in class a valentine, in high school couples would give each other a bear that says I Love You with some roses, and of course the cheesy cards and candy hearts came along as well. Now that I'm older and in a relationship I do find that it is sweet to revel in our love and celebrate the day together (which I will be doing this year with him, yay!) but I've always found that the day seems pretty menial when I give my love to him and everyone in my life every other day of the year as well... To me its more of a cash cow for candy shops and flower stores, but it has a few silver linings.

Love is so important in life and it can often be overshadowed by the stereotypical definition of what love is on TV and movies. The romantic gestures and kisses can be awesome for those involved, but for many, if you aren't in the "typical" celebrated relationship this time of year it can be another eye roll and an avoidance down that isle in Target. For anyone not so thrilled about it, here are some ways you can enjoy this holiday and still feel the love!

One aspect of Valentines Day that I really like is "Galentine's" celebrations. Basically, a term fondly coined by Parks and Rec Leslie Knope, Galentine's is when you get your friends together for a day or night out to celebrate either being single on Valentines Day or just to celebrate your love for them instead! The idea that platonic love is celebrated on this day instead of romantic love feels more inclusive and special to the people that support you. I recently went to a Galentine's Day party and it was equal parts fun, equal parts a great reminder of the love I have for my friendships!

I think one of the most underrated ways to celebrate Valentine's Day is to share it with a loved one, be it your dad, mom, grandma, grandpa, aunt, cousin, etc. Taking your grandma out for Valentine's Day or catching up with your dad for lunch is such a sweet way to show your love on Valentines's.

Lastly, give YOURSELF some love on Valentine's Day! Find a museum you want to go to, a concert, or the new coffee shop that opened up close by and spend some time doing things that you want. One of my favorite 'me' times is grabbing a coffee and thrift shopping without any time constraints. Or put some pjs on, close the door, and watch Youtube videos / Netflix alone... OR put some nice music on and take a bubble bath. (I thoroughly enjoy my 'me' time). Whatever it is, incorporate it into Valentine's Day and share the love with the person who needs love the most in life sometimes, you.

Love is love, and whether you are showing it to a partner/ spouse or family and friends, it should be about the love that you share with those people. Feel confident in the way you celebrate it and with who. For many years, I was not ok with this feeling, but having surrounded myself with so many people to share my love with, the possibilities for endless Valentines festivities are endless.

Hope you have a wonderful Valentine's Day, however you spend it! Love, Claire❣️